To keep the spark and passion in sex, it is important to never stop being creative. The originality, the exploration and the search of new sensations that you can share, is key so that you continue wishing always like the first day.
And to help you awaken that creative spark, we are.
Today we want to tell you about the Kunyaza, a technique of African origin that, although it is a bit complicated to pronounce, is incredibly easy to do and serves to praise female pleasure.
It sounds good right?
And to help you awaken that creative spark, we are.
Today we want to tell you about the Kunyaza, a technique of African origin that, although it is a bit complicated to pronounce, is incredibly easy to do and serves to praise female pleasure.
It sounds good right?
What is Kunyaza?
We know it, we know it. That of Kunyaza sounds very strange to our Western ears. But you do not need to be scared. Kunyaza is a traditional technique that comes from the countries of central Africa, especially Rwanda. It consists, basically, in the external stimulation of the vulva with the glans until reaching the female orgasm.
In Rwanda it is considered that getting a woman to orgasm is a matter of wisdom and honor. The man who manages to give his wife an orgasm can and should feel proud of himself. This is why the Kunyaza technique focuses on giving pleasure to women.
The name "Kunyaza" refers to female ejaculation, which is the most common result of practicing this technique.
The origin of this technique is based on a popular legend, which tells that while a king fought a war, the queen sought a lover. However, this other man did not dare to penetrate it for fear of possible reprisals from the king. He just rubbed his member against the queen's until she reached orgasm.
Why should I try Kunyaza?
The Kunyaza technique is a different way of having sex. It will help you to introduce variety in the bed and to detach from the "coitocentrism". Not all sex is penetration nor should you make this your goal.
We know it, we know it. That of Kunyaza sounds very strange to our Western ears. But you do not need to be scared. Kunyaza is a traditional technique that comes from the countries of central Africa, especially Rwanda. It consists, basically, in the external stimulation of the vulva with the glans until reaching the female orgasm.
In Rwanda it is considered that getting a woman to orgasm is a matter of wisdom and honor. The man who manages to give his wife an orgasm can and should feel proud of himself. This is why the Kunyaza technique focuses on giving pleasure to women.
The name "Kunyaza" refers to female ejaculation, which is the most common result of practicing this technique.
The origin of this technique is based on a popular legend, which tells that while a king fought a war, the queen sought a lover. However, this other man did not dare to penetrate it for fear of possible reprisals from the king. He just rubbed his member against the queen's until she reached orgasm.
Why should I try Kunyaza?
The Kunyaza technique is a different way of having sex. It will help you to introduce variety in the bed and to detach from the "coitocentrism". Not all sex is penetration nor should you make this your goal.
Practicing the Kunyaza is also very useful to discover new sensations and new ways of stimulating one another. Maybe there are areas that you thought were not erogenous or not very sensitive and that thanks to this technique you can rediscover.
How to make a good Kunyaza?
The key to this sexual technique is the rhythmic action of the glans on and around the clitoris and vulva. It can be done as preliminary phase or exclusively. It starts with soft caresses and little by little the pace and intensity increase.
Step 1. The position.
The two easiest positions to practice the Kunyaza are with the woman lying on her back and her legs wide open and with her knees bent or in the position of the puppy. Choose the one that is most comfortable for you and that you can keep for a long time.
The Kunyaza is easy, but not necessarily fast.
Step 2. Soft caresses.
Begin by stimulating the labia majora and the clitoris with the glans penis. The man holds the base of his penis with his hand and performs the caresses, starting very softly.
They can be caressed from top to bottom, in circular or zigzag movement. The question is to stimulate all the sensitive points little by little.
Step 3. Increase in intensity.
Once the woman begins to be more excited and lubricated, you can increase the intensity. Try to change the caresses by dry blows (not very strong, do not hurt yourself) in the same areas.
You can also rub with more force or try with small pushes. It is important that you do only that which is pleasing to you, but do not forget to try things to get out of your comfort zone.
Step 4. Penetration ... but not quite.
At this point two things can happen: That you are having a blast and you reach orgasm just doing these caresses and blows or that you are so excited that you need a little more intensity.
The second part of the sexual technique kunyaza also includes penetration, but in a special way: just the glans is introduced.
It is about continuing to stimulate only the outermost part of the vagina. The man has to continue holding the base of his penis with his hand and can use it to, in addition to the classic movement of entry and exit, make circles and other different strokes.
Keep it up until you reach orgasm.
How to make a good Kunyaza?
The key to this sexual technique is the rhythmic action of the glans on and around the clitoris and vulva. It can be done as preliminary phase or exclusively. It starts with soft caresses and little by little the pace and intensity increase.
Step 1. The position.
The two easiest positions to practice the Kunyaza are with the woman lying on her back and her legs wide open and with her knees bent or in the position of the puppy. Choose the one that is most comfortable for you and that you can keep for a long time.
The Kunyaza is easy, but not necessarily fast.
Step 2. Soft caresses.
Begin by stimulating the labia majora and the clitoris with the glans penis. The man holds the base of his penis with his hand and performs the caresses, starting very softly.
They can be caressed from top to bottom, in circular or zigzag movement. The question is to stimulate all the sensitive points little by little.
Step 3. Increase in intensity.
Once the woman begins to be more excited and lubricated, you can increase the intensity. Try to change the caresses by dry blows (not very strong, do not hurt yourself) in the same areas.
You can also rub with more force or try with small pushes. It is important that you do only that which is pleasing to you, but do not forget to try things to get out of your comfort zone.
Step 4. Penetration ... but not quite.
At this point two things can happen: That you are having a blast and you reach orgasm just doing these caresses and blows or that you are so excited that you need a little more intensity.
The second part of the sexual technique kunyaza also includes penetration, but in a special way: just the glans is introduced.
It is about continuing to stimulate only the outermost part of the vagina. The man has to continue holding the base of his penis with his hand and can use it to, in addition to the classic movement of entry and exit, make circles and other different strokes.
Keep it up until you reach orgasm.
An advice.
Before starting, take a water-based lubricant and apply a good amount on both the penis and the vulva. The sensation of humidity and the soft touch will help the sensations to multiply. If you want, you can also try with a lubricant effect heat or cold effect, to further increase the excitement.
If you want to know more about the origin of this curious and pleasurable sexual technique, we recommend that you watch the documentary Sacred Water that you can watch online here: Sacred Water Documentary
Source: Lilith Room
Before starting, take a water-based lubricant and apply a good amount on both the penis and the vulva. The sensation of humidity and the soft touch will help the sensations to multiply. If you want, you can also try with a lubricant effect heat or cold effect, to further increase the excitement.
If you want to know more about the origin of this curious and pleasurable sexual technique, we recommend that you watch the documentary Sacred Water that you can watch online here: Sacred Water Documentary
Source: Lilith Room