You’re not alone if you struggle to climax when intimate. Most women do not orgasm during sex, However, there is a secret to female pleasure. It’s called kunyaza, an ancient method of clitoral stimulation from East Africa which facilitates female ejaculation and multiple orgasms in women, without penetration.
For many practitioners, kunyaza can help solve the orgasm gap. It’s a method that prioritises female pleasure and teaches men how to stimulate the clitoris.
For many practitioners, kunyaza can help solve the orgasm gap. It’s a method that prioritises female pleasure and teaches men how to stimulate the clitoris.
The Kunyaza Origin
According to Rwandan legend, a queen was bored while the king was at war. She called one of the royal guards to satisfy her desire, The guard was terrified. He was unable to penetrate the queen. Trembling with fear, he was shaking as his member struck her clitoris. The queen managed to take pleasure to the point of ejaculation.
It is said that this “sacred water” was so abundant that it formed Lake Kivu, one of the great lakes of East Africa which crosses Rwanda and the Democratic of Congo. Upon the king’s return, the queen informed the king to perform the striking, tapping motion on her. The water which gushed from the queen was called kunyara, and the tapping technique which brought about the expulsion become known as kunyaza.
During the kunyaza tradition, female pleasure is prioritised. From a relatively young age, men are taught about the female anatomy and the importance of clitoral stimulation for sexual satisfaction. Similarly, women are taught about the vulva and the art of pleasure by ssengas, who serve as sex educators. In traditional African cultures, men are expected to help their wives squirt with the kunyaza method.
According to Rwandan legend, a queen was bored while the king was at war. She called one of the royal guards to satisfy her desire, The guard was terrified. He was unable to penetrate the queen. Trembling with fear, he was shaking as his member struck her clitoris. The queen managed to take pleasure to the point of ejaculation.
It is said that this “sacred water” was so abundant that it formed Lake Kivu, one of the great lakes of East Africa which crosses Rwanda and the Democratic of Congo. Upon the king’s return, the queen informed the king to perform the striking, tapping motion on her. The water which gushed from the queen was called kunyara, and the tapping technique which brought about the expulsion become known as kunyaza.
During the kunyaza tradition, female pleasure is prioritised. From a relatively young age, men are taught about the female anatomy and the importance of clitoral stimulation for sexual satisfaction. Similarly, women are taught about the vulva and the art of pleasure by ssengas, who serve as sex educators. In traditional African cultures, men are expected to help their wives squirt with the kunyaza method.
Is Squirting Normal?
Kunyaza involves the stimulation of the clitoris with the penis glans in a tapping and rubbing motion to elicit a squirting orgasm. In east Africa, it is very common for women to squirt orgasms during sex, reports Rwandan medical doctor Dr. Aristarque Muganda. Rwandan sexologist Vestine Dusabe said 90 percent of married women in Rwanda produce the water when intimate. In contrast to Western cultures, squirting is normalised in Rwanda, Uganda and Kenya.
Kunyaza involves the stimulation of the clitoris with the penis glans in a tapping and rubbing motion to elicit a squirting orgasm. In east Africa, it is very common for women to squirt orgasms during sex, reports Rwandan medical doctor Dr. Aristarque Muganda. Rwandan sexologist Vestine Dusabe said 90 percent of married women in Rwanda produce the water when intimate. In contrast to Western cultures, squirting is normalised in Rwanda, Uganda and Kenya.
Is Kunyaza a Feminist Practice?
While some western writers have argued that “kunyaza is inherently a feminist practice,” it is ultimately a heterosexual practice to help men bring their wives to sexual climax. Women ‘s pleasure comes first with kunyaza, and men have a duty to please them. In recent times, some western media outlets have attempted to reframe kunyaza as being as female masturbation practice which “guarantees explosive squirting orgasms,” it is important to respect the origins of this African practice, as well as the black African women who taught it.
Speaking about white feminists and kunyaza, a Rwandan-based sex educator said, “Feminists do not speak for women here. We have our own culture and traditions. We do not need white people to save us! Westerners should respect our kunyaza traditions or leave us alone!”
For more, read the book, Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure by Habeeb Akande.
While some western writers have argued that “kunyaza is inherently a feminist practice,” it is ultimately a heterosexual practice to help men bring their wives to sexual climax. Women ‘s pleasure comes first with kunyaza, and men have a duty to please them. In recent times, some western media outlets have attempted to reframe kunyaza as being as female masturbation practice which “guarantees explosive squirting orgasms,” it is important to respect the origins of this African practice, as well as the black African women who taught it.
Speaking about white feminists and kunyaza, a Rwandan-based sex educator said, “Feminists do not speak for women here. We have our own culture and traditions. We do not need white people to save us! Westerners should respect our kunyaza traditions or leave us alone!”
For more, read the book, Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure by Habeeb Akande.
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