In rural Rwanda and Uganda, people venerate female pleasure. The local form of making love, called Kachabali in Uganda and Kunyaza in Rwanda, involves a man uses the head of his penis to massage the clitoris, labia, and opening of the vagina with circular, up-and-down and side-to-side motions. The vagina is also tapped or slapped rapidly, while he holds his shaft like a flashlight, between his thumb and fingers. When touched this way, many women experience multiple, squirting orgasms. Even the 80% of women who have difficulty with vaginal orgasms, find that the clitoral stimulation kachabali/kunyaza provides wakes up all the pleasure centers between her legs, says sex and intimacy coach for women, Zoe Kors
Kunyaza according to American writer and political activist Joe Duncan:
"Stepping outside of the world of American-centrism and a focus of western civilization in general and we find that other cultures, namely the cultures of East Africa have practiced sexual moves which facilitate both female orgasm and ejaculation for centuries. Among them are those from the Congo, Uganda, Rwanda, and other nations, but they all have practiced Kunyaza for a very long time.
The Kunyaza is quite a lengthy and precise process by which a man stimulates a woman and brings her to orgasm (with ensuing ejaculation, which is sort of the point), through a strict sequence of steps that are repeated until she’s satisfied. Rather than just relying on penile insertion in combination with a back and forth motion of thrusting like we do here in the west, the man uses a series of motions to stimulate to full inside and outside of the vulva, starting with getting it lubricated by teasing the exterior vagina by rubbing his penis along it, up and down.
Taking it like a cigar, he begins by placing his penis inside his hand, between his pointer finger and middle finger, and then he slaps it into the clitoral hood of his partner, striking it continuously while rotating his penis in circles, clockwise and counter clockwise to stimulate the outside of the vulva, the vagina."
He then manages to fall into a rhythm where he does this and alternates entering into the woman’s vagina, then back out, then back in, all in one fluid motion as he thrusts back and forth.
While the female orgasm and squirting may be ambiguous and cloaked in mystery here in the west, for centuries the peoples of East Africa have known about both, and developed this very practice specifically to bring about both.
Source: Joe Duncan, Gush: The Comprehensive Guide to Female Squirting
"Stepping outside of the world of American-centrism and a focus of western civilization in general and we find that other cultures, namely the cultures of East Africa have practiced sexual moves which facilitate both female orgasm and ejaculation for centuries. Among them are those from the Congo, Uganda, Rwanda, and other nations, but they all have practiced Kunyaza for a very long time.
The Kunyaza is quite a lengthy and precise process by which a man stimulates a woman and brings her to orgasm (with ensuing ejaculation, which is sort of the point), through a strict sequence of steps that are repeated until she’s satisfied. Rather than just relying on penile insertion in combination with a back and forth motion of thrusting like we do here in the west, the man uses a series of motions to stimulate to full inside and outside of the vulva, starting with getting it lubricated by teasing the exterior vagina by rubbing his penis along it, up and down.
Taking it like a cigar, he begins by placing his penis inside his hand, between his pointer finger and middle finger, and then he slaps it into the clitoral hood of his partner, striking it continuously while rotating his penis in circles, clockwise and counter clockwise to stimulate the outside of the vulva, the vagina."
He then manages to fall into a rhythm where he does this and alternates entering into the woman’s vagina, then back out, then back in, all in one fluid motion as he thrusts back and forth.
While the female orgasm and squirting may be ambiguous and cloaked in mystery here in the west, for centuries the peoples of East Africa have known about both, and developed this very practice specifically to bring about both.
Source: Joe Duncan, Gush: The Comprehensive Guide to Female Squirting
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King of Kachabali. King of Kunyaza
By Erika Harris
He reads her labia
as the sacred script that it is.
He is a pussy devotee,
and he has been endowed
with The Power Of The Hand.
And also, The Power Of The Wait.
He has the power to wait for her, without hurry
or expectation. He is genitally generous.
Circling and churning her honey-pot.
His wrist rotates… spins, like a whirling dervish.
Cockwise. Counter-cockwise.
He wants only to reunite the glans of his erect penis
with the glans of her erect clitoris.
He will let supple, sensitized skin do its thing.
He will not frantically plow into her…
like a big, dopey porn-ox.
This wise womb-worshipper knows
that most of the best-feeling places
in her vagina-temple are actually near its doors.
The lipsss.
So that is where he puts all his focus and energy,
simply sliding slickness all around there…
rhythmically tapping and gliding between her slippery folds
with his warm, silky head… penetrating ever-so-briefly,
and not even all the way…
This teasing, pulsing prayer makes her vulva,
with its 8,000 clitoral nerve endings, reach toward him
like a hungry mouth, wide open to this attentive King
who brings her from dry to drenched.
From thirsty to quenched.
Y’know misogyny? This is the opposite.
If ever something could transform
patriarchy into ecstasy, this is it.
Such giving Kings, your Queens adore you.
Source: Erika Harris
By Erika Harris
He reads her labia
as the sacred script that it is.
He is a pussy devotee,
and he has been endowed
with The Power Of The Hand.
And also, The Power Of The Wait.
He has the power to wait for her, without hurry
or expectation. He is genitally generous.
Circling and churning her honey-pot.
His wrist rotates… spins, like a whirling dervish.
Cockwise. Counter-cockwise.
He wants only to reunite the glans of his erect penis
with the glans of her erect clitoris.
He will let supple, sensitized skin do its thing.
He will not frantically plow into her…
like a big, dopey porn-ox.
This wise womb-worshipper knows
that most of the best-feeling places
in her vagina-temple are actually near its doors.
The lipsss.
So that is where he puts all his focus and energy,
simply sliding slickness all around there…
rhythmically tapping and gliding between her slippery folds
with his warm, silky head… penetrating ever-so-briefly,
and not even all the way…
This teasing, pulsing prayer makes her vulva,
with its 8,000 clitoral nerve endings, reach toward him
like a hungry mouth, wide open to this attentive King
who brings her from dry to drenched.
From thirsty to quenched.
Y’know misogyny? This is the opposite.
If ever something could transform
patriarchy into ecstasy, this is it.
Such giving Kings, your Queens adore you.
Source: Erika Harris
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