Want to learn an African way to squirt waterfalls? Well, you can, with the ancient technique from Rwanda called kunyaza! The principle of the technique is simple. The man takes hold of his erect penis, and taps it against the woman's clitoris and labia in a rhythmic fashion. He can increases the tapping tempo and alternate between circular and zigzagging movements. The woman allows the water to flow freely.
Myths and traditions
The origin of the technique dates back to the Third Dynasty of the pre-colonial Kingdom of Rwanda, Nyanza being the capital city at the time. The story goes that a lonely queen was very much in the mood for sex while her husband was away on a military expedition. She summoned one of her male guards to satisfy her sexual needs.
Waterfall
The poor man was terrified and held his penis with trembling hands in an attempt to penetrate the queen. His penis rubbed up and down against her lady parts and he constantly tapped her clitoris and labia. The tapping motion brought so much pleasure to the queen the she had a squirting orgasm. The huge waterfall that came out of her formed one of the largest lakes in East Africa. When the king came back, the queen asked him to make the same tapping motion with his penis. And that’s how the kunyaza technique was born. The kunyaza tradition gets passed down from one generation to the other.
The origin of the technique dates back to the Third Dynasty of the pre-colonial Kingdom of Rwanda, Nyanza being the capital city at the time. The story goes that a lonely queen was very much in the mood for sex while her husband was away on a military expedition. She summoned one of her male guards to satisfy her sexual needs.
Waterfall
The poor man was terrified and held his penis with trembling hands in an attempt to penetrate the queen. His penis rubbed up and down against her lady parts and he constantly tapped her clitoris and labia. The tapping motion brought so much pleasure to the queen the she had a squirting orgasm. The huge waterfall that came out of her formed one of the largest lakes in East Africa. When the king came back, the queen asked him to make the same tapping motion with his penis. And that’s how the kunyaza technique was born. The kunyaza tradition gets passed down from one generation to the other.
Sexual rite
For kunyaza, men are taught how to tap and rub the top of their penis on the clitoris and labia. Traditionally, Rwandan men feel ashamed if they are unable to bring their wife to a wet climax. In Rwanda, sex is not just about penetration and male lust. On the contrary, the man has to pleasure the woman and satisfy her.
Impact of kunyaza
According to Angelica Lindsey Ali, an American sexual health educator, kunyaza is the easiest and most effective way of achieving female ejaculation. Rwandan sexologist Vestine Dusabe reported that ninety percent of women can learn how to squirt with this technique.
In a BBC-documentary about kunyaza, we see how Vestine tries to keep the tradition alive in the quickly modernising urban areas of Rwanda. She teaches sex education to teenage girls and reminds them how lucky they are to live in a country where girls are not circumcised: ‘Here in Rwanda, the female experience of sexuality is part of our culture.’ In Rwanda, female pleasure is sacred.
For kunyaza, men are taught how to tap and rub the top of their penis on the clitoris and labia. Traditionally, Rwandan men feel ashamed if they are unable to bring their wife to a wet climax. In Rwanda, sex is not just about penetration and male lust. On the contrary, the man has to pleasure the woman and satisfy her.
Impact of kunyaza
According to Angelica Lindsey Ali, an American sexual health educator, kunyaza is the easiest and most effective way of achieving female ejaculation. Rwandan sexologist Vestine Dusabe reported that ninety percent of women can learn how to squirt with this technique.
In a BBC-documentary about kunyaza, we see how Vestine tries to keep the tradition alive in the quickly modernising urban areas of Rwanda. She teaches sex education to teenage girls and reminds them how lucky they are to live in a country where girls are not circumcised: ‘Here in Rwanda, the female experience of sexuality is part of our culture.’ In Rwanda, female pleasure is sacred.
The Kunyaza technique
To give a woman kunyaza, a man needs patience and practice to be able to achieve a mind-blowing squirting climax. A man’s role is essential in this: he is the one who has to pleasure you in a way that makes your water flow. In the BBC documentary, a woman even said she would throw her husband under the bed if he wasn’t able to make her squirt!
Arousing teamwork
Female ejaculation is something that both partners have to surrender to. In the classic Kunyaza position, the man sits on the bed or on the floor and the woman positions herself on his lap. If this doesn’t work for you, of course you can also lie on your back while your partner kneels between your knees.
The basic principle is quite simple. The man holds his penis and uses the glans to tap the clitoris, the labia and the vaginal opening. He starts by stimulating the inner labia and slowly works his way to the inside of the labia and the opening of the vagina. Then he stimulates the clitoris, the labia and the vagina at an increasing speed. He can alternate rhythmic tapping with circular and zigzagging movements.
Penetration
Although kunyaza is primarily a non-penetrative practice, there are variations of the practice involving sexual penetration. Alternating between short, small thrusts and long, deep thrusts, the man can make sure the clitoris glands are intensely stimulated. He can also move the tip of his penis in circles against the vaginal wall for more stimulation. He should hold his penis between his index finger and middle finger while thrusting and circling. He can even write his name long her vulva.
Book
To read more about the sexual history of Rwanda and the kunyaza technique to give a woman squirting orgasms, read the book Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure by Habeeb Akande
To give a woman kunyaza, a man needs patience and practice to be able to achieve a mind-blowing squirting climax. A man’s role is essential in this: he is the one who has to pleasure you in a way that makes your water flow. In the BBC documentary, a woman even said she would throw her husband under the bed if he wasn’t able to make her squirt!
Arousing teamwork
Female ejaculation is something that both partners have to surrender to. In the classic Kunyaza position, the man sits on the bed or on the floor and the woman positions herself on his lap. If this doesn’t work for you, of course you can also lie on your back while your partner kneels between your knees.
The basic principle is quite simple. The man holds his penis and uses the glans to tap the clitoris, the labia and the vaginal opening. He starts by stimulating the inner labia and slowly works his way to the inside of the labia and the opening of the vagina. Then he stimulates the clitoris, the labia and the vagina at an increasing speed. He can alternate rhythmic tapping with circular and zigzagging movements.
Penetration
Although kunyaza is primarily a non-penetrative practice, there are variations of the practice involving sexual penetration. Alternating between short, small thrusts and long, deep thrusts, the man can make sure the clitoris glands are intensely stimulated. He can also move the tip of his penis in circles against the vaginal wall for more stimulation. He should hold his penis between his index finger and middle finger while thrusting and circling. He can even write his name long her vulva.
Book
To read more about the sexual history of Rwanda and the kunyaza technique to give a woman squirting orgasms, read the book Kunyaza: The Secret to Female Pleasure by Habeeb Akande
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